Mr. Locario’s Sex Dating And Relationship advice: If you think your man is cheating, give him space!!!
If you think your man is cheating you might really get upset and your first thought might be to confront him about it. While this might seem like the best thing for you to do to, there is an even better way to approach the situation that will help you in the long run. The best thing for you to do would be is to act like what he might be doing doesn't even bother you or you have to act like its not even happening. Remember I said if you “think” your man is cheating. I’m not talking about if he actually is because he might not be.
I know this might sound crazy but the more you ask him about it and the more to keep getting mad about it the more it becomes a problem. Your boyfriend is going to do what he wants to do. You can't watch him all day.
The funny thing is most women think I'm crazy when I tell them this but sometimes you have to step back and let him do him. While he is doing him he will realize either what he is doing is for him or isn't for him.
Most times guys are cheating because they just want some sex on the side. Some times the reason your man might be seeing another girl is because to him it is something new and someone that he isn’t emotionally attached to which in most men’s minds means that right now this girl seems more fun than my girlfriend at the moment.
I hear men all the time talking about how much they love their girlfriends and wives but at the same time they often complain about the nagging and the bitching. Most men say to themselves, “this girl isn't nagging me and isn’t arguing with me and she is giving me my space”. What you might be doing as his girlfriend is nagging him and arguing with him and not giving him his space.
So you have to ask yourself if you had to choose between two people to hang out with and one is annoying you and one isn't who are you going to want to spend your time with.
Like I said you have to stop paying attention to what he is doing or if he realizes that you are paying attention just brush it off. He is going to be wondering why you are so calm and why you aren't nagging him and why you are remaining so cool.
Now you put yourself on the same playing field with the girl that he might be flirting with. The only difference is that you have an advantage over this girl because he is emotionally connected to YOU.
Now you have to ask yourself if there were two people that were being a cool, calm and collected person but the difference between them is one of them you already have some type of connection with who would you want to spend your time with.
So the thing is you have to give him space. That might mean he might sleep with this other girl (I know you don’t want to hear that-lol)
If he does sleep with the other girl then he will either realize that he likes this other girl more or that he isn't feeling her and realizes that you’re really the one he wanted to be with.
The thing is you have to be emotionally prepared to handle this type of thing but I'm letting you know right now the more you argue with him about it the more you are going to drive him away. It gets to the point that even if he isn’t actually cheating on you he might end up doing it because you keep bringing it up and accusing him of it. So he might say to himself “Fuck it she thinks I’m cheating then I might as well do it”. You can’t really stop a man from doing what he wants to do. You can help by being the coolest girlfriend in the world by stopping the nagging and bitching. This might help in some cases but at the end of the day you have to calm down, realize you can control him, and hope for the best.
Good Luck
Mr. Locario
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